Absence and Presence.

It almost doesn’t matter where you look: the topic of finances is often at the top of the list of causes for problems these days – often even before the topic of health!

In fact, the cause of many psychological problems and some illnesses can be found in finances.

How can that be?

In today’s world, finance is a vital necessity: our lives largely revolve around work and the associated earning of money. This is why so many fears are attached to this topic, because in most cases the loss of work also means the loss of a livelihood.

Strictly speaking, this is about fear of survival, because money is one of the foundations for our survival!

As we are un(sub)consciously threatened by this danger for almost our entire lives, many of us live almost permanently in fear and worry about our finances and our livelihoods.

If you notice a loss of well-being when considering the topic of finances, i.e. you feel worry, anxiety or discomfort, there can be countless reasons for this. Nevertheless, the anxiety that leads to your worries or fears can be traced back to a few causes:

– You are afraid of losing your source of income, i.e. your livelihood.

– You are afraid of not earning enough money or not earning enough money in the future.

– You are afraid of not being able to realize your dreams.

If you take a closer look at these causes, something becomes clear: it’s always a question of either there being too little money or that at some point it will no longer be available at all.

It’s all about the presence or absence of money.

If your thoughts express an absence of money because they are based on fear, how can you expect to detect the presence of money in your perception?

How can you expect to perceive Mini Cooper when your thoughts express VW Beetle ?

This is not only impossible, but also illogical!

If you want to perceive the presence of money – in whatever form! – your thoughts must also express the presence of money, wealth, prosperity etc.!

This is not only logical, but above all always possible!

Let’s look at the process from a practical perspective:

If you are afraid of losing your source of income, you are expressing fear of loss (absence) with your thoughts. Since this puts you in a state of fear, your thoughts have a logical but devastating consequence: you program your selective perception to make you perceive the absence of money.

As a result, your fear is in turn confirmed by the perceptions you make.

However, this means something else: you are also programming an absence of security into your entire thinking, because money means security for you. What consequences will this have for your selective perception?

Apart from that, such a fear of loss is usually unfounded. You could just as easily be afraid of slipping and breaking your neck when getting out of the shower or being struck by lightning while out for a walk!

Even if the fear were justified, it would still be completely illogical to worry about the impending loss! By doing so, you are only programming your selective perception to the (impending) absence of your source of income!

By the way: You can replace money with X, as it is completely irrelevant what it is about. The underlying laws of nature always apply and the process is always the same!

If you are afraid of losing X or never getting X, you will program your selective perception to do just that!

Then you shouldn’t be surprised when you realize that everyone else seems to have X, but not you!

Wouldn’t it make more sense to think about the presence of a source of income or X rather than the loss or absence?

And there is something else you should consider: if you are afraid of losing your source of income, you are already in the states of separation, lack, wanting and fear before it actually happens!

Although you may even have a source of income now, you are not in a state of having. This is completely illogical and will have consequences that you should not be surprised about.

Instead of being afraid of an impending loss – which is not even real – you should rather formulate your thoughts in terms of having, by being grateful that you have a source of income – in whatever form! – you have.

Even if it is not the source of income you would like or it does not bring you enough: it is always about being in the state of having! You can also reinforce the state of having by thinking other thoughts about your source of income that also express having.

Supplement your beliefs with statements: e.g. “There are an infinite number of sources of income in the world and anything is possible”, “Even in old age and without an education, countless people have managed to create a source of income for themselves”.

Etc.

Think and find as many formulations = statements as possible that express having. No matter how general they may be!

Nowadays, we have access to almost all of humanity’s information on the Internet. Something that people didn’t have in the past! This opens up endless possibilities!

Focus on possibilities – that means having. You have possibilities, and an infinite number of them!

There is an infinity of thoughts you can think on this subject to express having and presence!

Think them!

In other words: You may be just a thought away from what you want.

Think it!

You should always keep the duality of life in mind: everything has two sides! So there are just as many reasons to think that you will lose your source of income as there are reasons to think that you won’t or that there is a source of income for you that will bring in as much (and more!) as you want!

There is only one reason why you experience absence, loss, separation, lack and want: because you have not consciously chosen to think presence and having!

Another thing you should consider: if you are afraid of a loss, you are giving a non-real event in the future the power over your well-being and your perception.

The fear of loss leads to even more fear, with the corresponding consequences for your well-being and your perception.

It is easy to understand that it is completely illogical to think this way!

If you are suffering from fear of loss, you should recognize that you are in the mindset of lack and fear. To get out of it, you should reprogram your thoughts towards presence and having. Try to avoid thoughts that express separation, lack, absence and wanting.

This will make you feel good again and at the same time program your selective perception so that you also perceive presence and having!

It is very similar if you are afraid of not earning or having enough money, now or in the future. Again, you see yourself separated from the money. The consequences are absence, separation, lack and wanting. All this means fear. You are afraid of a possible separation and the resulting lack because you are in fear, and these thoughts create even more fear.

Again, you are giving an event that has not yet happened the power over your well-being and your perception. What’s more, you are thinking in the unreal future, and this also creates uncertainty, which in turn feeds your anxiety.

You find yourself in a spiral of fear that is getting worse and worse!

Always remember: all of this happens largely unconsciously, without you being aware of it!

The fear of not having enough is basically nothing more than a form of fear of loss. The fear of not getting something is the same as the fear of losing something. Both are based on thoughts of fear and both generate fear!

If you are in fear, you will always be afraid of loss or lack! Not just when it comes to finances. It doesn’t matter how much money you actually have!

Proof: otherwise there would be no people who are very rich but are still afraid of loss, separation or lack!

Your account balance has nothing to do with whether you feel having or separation, lack and want! It is exclusively your thinking that determines these states!

Therefore, the basic rule is: you should try to keep your thoughts in the have and program the corresponding beliefs. Establish presence and forget about the future!

You can’t predict what will happen in the future. Even if you have a lot of money. Anything could happen in the future that leads to the loss of your money!

What you can do, however, regardless of whether you have a lot of money or none, is to decide how you want to think now!

Once again, the duality of life comes into play:

You can worry (fear) about whether you will have enough money in the future, i.e. focus on absence: this will program your perception incorrectly.

or

You can trust that you will have enough money, i.e. focus on presence: This will program your perception correctly.

You decide with your free will!

If you’re worried about whether you’ll have enough money in the future, it’s often because you’re thinking about how you’re going to earn that money. However, the“how” in this case means control: you want to control now how you will earn money in the future – or how much you will have. Apart from the fact that control is an illusion, it means fear again, because control comes from and creates fear!

Forget the “how”! Stay in the now and in the have. Stay confident. There are an infinite number of ways in which you might earn money in the future. Don’t even try to control which way it will be in the end, because that only means fear and by doing so you block your perception!

You can plan or work on ideas, that is something completely different! However, you must never get into the states of separation, lack and wanting! This means work and plan, but do not express a need to succeed: this would signal separation, lack and want.

Work or plan because you enjoy it, because you are interested in a topic and focus on being present and having: e.g. the abundance of opportunities! Work and plan for the sake of doing and forget the relation to money.

In order to be able to perceive clues, information, methods, situations or people that ultimately lead to you earning (more) money, it is imperative that you are in possession and think thoughts that express the presence of money or wealth and abundance!

Never forget: You cannot perceive the presence of money if you think the absence of money!

I may be repeating myself, but the fear of not being able to realize your dreams is also simply the result of thinking in terms of lack. You believe that you don’t have enough and won’t have enough in the future.

This will lead you straight into fear.

The problem with this is that, out of fear, you will only ever perceive deficiency and thus block your own path to the realization of your dreams!

It is extremely important for you to recognize how a possible lack of money is connected to your perception. Especially with the fear that comes from the“how” question: you are trying to figure out how you are going to make money. In doing so, you are already expressing a disconnection to money, otherwise you wouldn’t be thinking about how to get it!

The“how” does not mean a plan, strategy or action that you have worked out, but your focus on the “how” and the separation that you express with it. Plan and program your perception on presence, abundance and having instead of noticing that customers, opportunities or investors etc. are absent.

If you study the biographies of successful people, you will come across one fact again and again: many success stories are based on a supposed coincidence. A chance encounter or coincidence.

This is nothing other than selective perception at work!

– It causes you to perceive something that you would otherwise not have noticed.

– This leads to you taking actions that you would not otherwise have taken.

– As a result, you will find yourself in places where you would not otherwise be.

– There you make new perceptions that you would not otherwise make.

– You collect new information that you would not otherwise collect.

– You come to new insights and conclusions that you wouldn’t otherwise come to.

– This leads to new thoughts and beliefs, which in turn lead to new perceptions and the resulting actions.

And so everything takes a natural, logical and comprehensible course!

– You will meet someone who will help you…

– You will get a new piece of information or idea…

– You will seize an opportunity…

Etc.

Don’t ask yourself “how”. Instead, ask yourself how you want to program your beliefs and thus your selective perception so that you perceive what you want to perceive!

Success stories from biographies have something else in common: the ways in which something ultimately became reality could never have been foreseen!

Check your beliefs and identify those that express absence, separation, lack or want = fear on the subject of money and replace them with those that express having and presence!

When defining your beliefs, it is helpful to proceed according to the following principle: find the closest thought that expresses presence and having on the subject of finances and feels good. The reason for this is that it makes no sense to think thoughts that do not lead to the right feeling.

If you are broke, you may think that it is great to be a millionaire, but this thought or its content is probably just too far away from you. The feeling of separation and lack would creep back in.

This is also one of the reasons why conventional positive thinking often leads to problems. You are broke, but you should think that you are or will soon be a millionaire. In doing so, you are trying to activate two contradictory beliefs! This leads to a flash in the pan and a mental war with your subconscious. There is a brief high, which then disappears relatively quickly – as soon as your subconscious (your beliefs) have taken control again.

The closest thought that feels good is a thought that does not contradict your active beliefs. Instead of thinking a 180° turnaround , you approach the topic step by step.

If you are broke, have no income or are possibly even in trouble, you can still think presence and having and thus program advantageous beliefs.

Even if the situation is critical, you can still think such or similar thoughts:

– “ I’m fine, I’m healthy.”

– “ I have family, friends and acquaintances who support me.”

– “ I’ve made it this far.”

– “ There is always an opportunity to do something.”

– “ Anything is possible.”

– “ I have free will and can think the way I want.”

– “ I now have the freedom to decide what I want to do.”

– “ There are plenty of jobs out there, I just need to broaden my horizons.”

– “ I have the will to do something.”

– “ I am ready to invest all my energy.”

– “ If I want to, I have the strength.”

– “ My situation is only the result of my previous thinking.”

– “ You don’t need any special training, contacts or money to be successful.”

– “ I have everything I need to be successful.”

– “ There are billions of ways and possibilities for my success.”

– “ There are two sides to everything, including my current situation.”

– “ If I wasn’t in this situation, I would never think about what I wanted to do with my life.”

– “ I now have the chance to start everything anew, to design and create.”

Etc.

Formulate thoughts that feel realistic to you. Thoughts that make you feel good. Take the mental test drive and climb the ladder of thoughts rung by rung. There’s no point in skipping one or more rungs, because then you won’t feel safe and may end up in conflict with your active beliefs. Once you have climbed a rung, you will be able to think new thoughts that still seem too far away .

This is how you program a new belief system on the subject of finance:

Note: Use the tutorial worksheet to identify, define and program your beliefs .

It is important that you use your own words and expressions! Write the way you think!

1. Go into your I-frequency – think of someone you love or something you love.

2. Think about your finances, your prospects, your income, etc. Observehow you feel, e.g. when you think about these topics. How does your I-frequency react?

Your I-frequency becomes weaker:

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3. If you are not feeling well or your I-frequency is weakening, you have identified an unfavorable belief. This belief relates to a specific area or topic of your finances. Identify which area/topic it is about and analyze the thoughts of your belief. How else do you express absence, separation, lack, wanting or other derivatives of fear in relation to this area? Identify the words you use to express worry, uncertainty, insecurity, lack of trust, etc.

Note these thoughts under 1. in the worksheet.

This section describes how you have thought so far.

4. Now define for your new belief thoughts that express a presence of abundance or the benefits of having lots of money. How can you think about your finances and money in general in a way that makes you feel good and have a strong I-frequency? Formulate thoughts that match your level: Statements that you can think and feel without resistance, i.e. your I-frequency remains constant or improves. Not all the way to the top!

Note these thoughts (as bullet points) under 5.

This area describes how you want to think now.

Continue at point 5. here.

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5. Next, formulate how you want to feel when you think about your finances and write it down under 2.

6. Then formulate what you would like to realize regarding your finances (financial situation) and write it down under 3.

7. Now combine the points 2. and 3. into a single statement (can consist of several sentences!) and write them down under 4.

8. Combine Your statement 4. with the newly defined ideas / content 5. into your new belief (also as a statement!). Write it down under 6.

9. Write down your belief in as many places as possible. Write small pieces of paper and hand them out. Write the belief in a notebook and keep it with you at all times. The point is to remind yourself of your new belief as often as possible. You can also make yourself thought aids, such as small colorful dots to stick everywhere. Be creative!

10. Think this new belief exclusively! Think it as often as possible, e.g. every time you think about your finances, when you buy something, or when you notice that your I-frequency is getting weaker because you are worried about your income. Whenever the topic of finances and money is relevant.

11. You should take action! Start and stay disciplined until your new belief is programmed and you notice that something changes in your finances. Observe not only whether you have more money at your disposal, but also whether more opportunities, contacts or possibilities present themselves to you – everything that could ultimately lead you to money!

Check your I-frequency regularly and correct your belief system if necessary.

12. Complete further tests with the corresponding tutorials, as everything is connected and your skills influence each other. It is therefore very important that you work on all your skills and achieve a high level of proficiency.

Your I-frequency shows you at any time where there is still a need for action.

Listen to them!